Arvin,
I am just catching up on your thread. This would be an excellent example for an engineering strength of materials course to help explain the relationship between stress, stiffness (elastic modulus), neutral plan, and strain. Without detailed measurements to go by, the amount of stretch (strain) you are measuring on the bow back seems reasonable. If you can measure it, you will probably find a similar amount of compression (shortening) on the belly side, then the neutral plane is right between the back and belly.
You might find some difference depending on how much of the belly-side thickness is horn. More horn = less strain on bow back and more strain on the bow belly.
I don’t have any experience with gemsbok horn. I have a small sample, but it is not in good enough condition for a 3-point bend test. It seems a little stiffer than my water buffalo horn, but half to a third as stiff as a decent piece of hickory of same thickness.
Alan