Morgan,
you can't actually lessen the over all tension on the back, but with trapping, you can change the "unit" tension, as in pounds per square inch.
For two bows of the same weight pull, one rectangular and the other trapezoidal in cross section, The one with the narrower back will actually have a higher unit tension.
As bowanarra points out, the terms "tension strong" and "compression strong" (or weak) are a bit nebulous, as the properties are relative to the other side of the bow. Tim baker makes use of such terms in the bowyers bible, and they serve well enough to get the bowyer considering the merits or shortcomings of their materiel's, but usage of such terminology without stating quantities, does get confusing.