Marc
my first attempts turned out like yours- stayed sticky for a long time. I started using PatM's method of dissolving in alcohol and then reducing with heat.
when first "boiling" off the alcohol, you can smell it coming off, and even condense it and reuse it by using a cooler cover that allows you to drain off the condensation. when the pitch gets thicker and the alcohol is gone, what you are boiling off is the natural turpentine from pitch. how much of these turps you remove, determines the stickiness and brittleness of the final product. you can see the difference in how it boils also.
I have to be careful at this point not to boil too vigorously or stir the pot much as it can boil over easily. for safety, I use a double boiler over a resistance hotplate. a flame or direct boiling could be dangerous, at least with spruce sap it is