I'm sorry to hear of your troubles. It always seems so strange that things pile up on certain families usally very good families to) Yesterday I attended a friends funeral. He was 50 years old and the nicest guy you could ever meet. There were at least 4 time more people than would fit in the church nobody left. He was taken in a car accident. His Dad got a scratch on his finger about 15 years ago got a staph infection and became paralyzed. He has regained use of his hands and can even walk with a walker with great effort.(he walked up the isle for his sons wedding) My friend has 2 brothers, one collapsed at work about a month ago found out he had brain cancer. They removed the cancer but said it is very common for this aggressive form of cancer to return. I don't know why this happens to such good people, but it pray they are given eternal reward that more than compensates for their struggles here on earth.
I pray that your family is given the strength to get through these hard times.
Bjrogg