I don't call a bow shot in until it has a few hundred arrows through it. Even then, it will change over time. I used to be more deliberate about breaking a bow in by leaving it strung, overdrawing it, shooting it in at short draws but I don't know that it made much difference. Now I just shoot the crap out of it and continually check tiller before I finish it.
You lost quite a bit of deflex during glue-up right? That points to some kind of design or construction issue. I'd think that through some. What was the width? How thick was your boo? What kind and quality of boo and yew? How did you glue it up? How much R/D was in it?
Well made boo backed bows take a lot of abuse. I'd be surprised that simply overdrawing it by a couple inches would make that much change.