Russ, Weldwood, the manufacturer of resorcinol glue at the time specifically noted oak on the can as inappropriate when I had a boat shop in the 70's. I was an early user of W.E.S.T System epoxy, and I (and innumerable other boat builders) have used it many times for successfully gluing white oak laminations. I wrote a technical design column for WoodenBoat magazine for three years.
Gluing hardwoods successfully with epoxy requires an understanding of a lot of different factors re. both glue resin type, admixtures, hardener type, hardwood thickness, moisture changes, surface roughness, etc.
Rules of thumb work, as long as someone has experience with the particular epoxy resin in a similar glue up used for a similar purpose. But just because one bow builder has a failure with one unnamed brand of epoxy with unspecified thickness and moisture content white oak, doesn't mean "epoxy" doesn't work with white oak. It probably means one or more of the above weren't appropriate.
Likewise when a manufacturer like Weldwood (re. resorcinol glue) specifically advises against a particular kind of wood, it's probably based on wide experience and testing. Most won't recommend against using a product they sell, unless there's a very good reason not to sell it for that purpose.
If I were laminating red oak for a bow, I'd probably reach for my W.E.S.T. System cans. Laminations should be thin. The Gougeon Brothers have always pointed out that moisture changes in thick hardwood laminations (ie over 1/4" thick) can exceed the peel strength of the wood at the glue line. That is, by the way, the weakest link in the chain, not necessarily the tensile strength of the epoxy itself.