I just went through this thread again and Blackhawk had a decent suggestion.
Lay out your design first.
Length, width etc. Don't cut anything though, If you had a ton of excess perhaps, but you dont....
The reflex may not be unmanageable by that point, you may have to steam very little or none at all.
A note on steaming...
I have found that steaming in foil is very efficient and seems to take half the time of boiling over a pot. The heat and moisture is localized, circulating around the wood. It is almost like boiling. You must take care not to boil the all the water out. If you do, for a few minutes, you will probably be okay but you wont wanna scorch the wood or dry it so much you cause checking...
When steaming over a pot the water vapor passes over the wood and out the lid, having minimal contact with the wood itself. Taking much more water, energy and time to achieve the same result.
However nearly every one has their own little tips, tricks and preferences. There are many bowyers here with more experience than I, this is just what works for me. My recommendation in regards to anything bowyery, is to dive right in. At very least you will learn what works, what you like or dont like.
There will always be another piece of wood.