Those that received a bow and never sent one, there can be no joy in that.
...or at least that's what we'd like to think.
Like you, I wasn't involved in the trade this year. I was last year, and loved every minute of it (even though it took me 4 attempts, I ended up with a BOM from it, which was just an added bonus
). I just didn't think I would be able to get one done this year with everything else I had going on, so I couldn't commit.
I don't think it's wise to tarnish someone's name because they couldn't complete their end of the deal for
legitimate reasons. But I think with all of the time and opportunities the rest of them have had to reach out and contact their recipients, I can't think of any reason why someone couldn't even be bothered to let their recipient know what's going on, unless they simply didn't care. And I certainly don't want these people to be able to take advantage of others on this forum
again. Unless their names are released or some other action is taken, they are likely to do it again (not just in a bow swap, but potentially in other trades as well) Yes, we have awesome members who are willing to step up and "fill in the blanks", and other recipients that are fine with not even receiving a bow (you guys are the ones who make this such an amazing group of people), but that doesn't mean that these guys should get away with scamming us, and be left able to do it again. Just my humble 2 cents...