I lost an uncle recently and tried to find a way to explain to my two young sons how to cope with loss. To me, it helps to think back and remember all of the good times shared with a person. Fishing trips, camping, deer roasts over an open fire, any ill-advised adventures, and all the funny things said and done over the years. This takes a little of the edge off. Each person has their own way to deal with it. Reflecting back helps me.