thanks guys,
I did end up steaming the splices, I was also hesitant about getting moisture into the dry wood, but i haven't played around with heat guns much as of yet, and I was worried about over heating the thin points of the cuts.
the handle is clamped up now and will be for a couple days, it is amazing what a difference that made. the splice looks way way better than it did before heating and clamping.
I won't be using the dowel,
as for glue, what do you guys use?
thanks,