You may be heating too fast and trying to bend before the wood is ready. When I heat a handle to make corrections, I spend a good 15 minutes slowly getting it up to temperature with the heat gun before I put any strain on the wood.
You may also want to look into steaming. I recently picked up a $5 garment steamer at a second hand store. It was pretty gunked up with mineral deposits, but 25 cents worth of cheap dollar store vinegar solved that issue. I have found that you can get osage wood moving pretty easily with steam.