Tradslinger, us guys that have been doing this a while like to sense the excitement of new guys like yourself. At least I know I do. I dreamed many nights of various bows flexing on the tillering tree and I'd wake up all excited with new ideas or inspiration, head to the shop at 3 am to bend one before work. Some of that has waned, but I still stand there in awe of a fully drawn quivering selfbow on the tree. Love it! This is a cool thing we're doin'.
Pat, I think I know what you're getting at, and I doubt there's a way for us to replicate the exact physical structure and intricacies of the human hand. It's complex. But I also don't feel we should use that as an excuse to not try to improve our methods to get nearer that, or to hold too tight to conventional wisdom. I'm always, always open to suggestions on how to make a better bow in a more straightforward fashion. My means and methods are in a constant state of scrutiny and flux, and will continue to be.
Currently I have the cradle of my tree made so it can either be used to hold the bow 'static' if you will, so it can't move unless the balance is terrible, by supporting it near the top and bottom of the handle. Good balance/timing can be achieved this way(or with the bow clamped solidly) if the string is pulled from where our hand will pull it and the strength of the limbs is adjusted so the hook comes perfectly straight down perpendicular to the handle, we just won't know exactly where the dynamic balance point is... which led me to alter my tree so that....
A bow can also be supported at a single point anywhere in the handle area, allowing it to tilt with the slightest imbalance. Pulled from the string hand fulcrum point, this method will reveal where the balance point is in the drawn bow, and allow it to be moved where we want it to suit us, within reason, by adjusting the strength of one limb or the other. I think folks should try this, it can be an eye opener.
I have other odd shaped inserts I can use for pivoting or varying support higher or lower, but I rarely use them. Hey, how about a sandbag, or foam or gel pad? I could put something like that on there too, and I may just for the heck of it, but I don't think it would tell me anything different than that single movable pivot point.