DC/Fox - Steamed it over a large shallow pot on the stove, wrapped in a washcloth, covered in tinfoil, rolling boil probably for an hour. Then, right to the clamps in the shop for 24hr and then into the house.
Bassman - Thanks for the support, I'm really enjoying this process. The fact that every failure I've had so far directly translates into a new bit of first-hand knowledge I can use is pretty satisfying in it's own way, but it can be frustrating wanting to move quickly. I'm lucky that I have access to the little bit of wood that I do for rounds 2, and 3, and 4... If I was trying to source staves from somewhere or buy them that would be a different story.
Pat - I don't think the bend was too radical, I feel like I've been guilty of not going far enough out of lack of confidence. The fact that I lost most of the reflex after bringing it inside and before bending it makes me feel I did the same here. The texture of the off-colored wood is no different than whats surrounding it, it's actually quite attractive in my opinion.