When setting up the tips I go 1" on the belly and 3/4" on the back for the string groove and like you said, it's about a 45 deg angle. First, you don't need the tip overlays until almost finish time. I usually keep my tips 3/4" to 1/2" wide and put in temporary side nocks. These will disappear with final tip shaping.
With antler tip overlays make the pithy side perfectly flat then saturate the pith with super glue and let it cure then flatten again. You want the bow tip and the overlay glue surfaces to match perfectly. I wouldn't use TBII because it is not water proof although it will work other than that. I use TBIII, which is water proof, gel super glue and 2ton epoxy, both are water proof, to glue down the overlays. With TB glues there is no need to rough the surface but a perfect fit is critical. I also use a rubber band to wrap the glued tip until the glue is cured.