I get your point. Saplings don't just get hit by wind, they typically are long and thin. If not very flexible, they would break too easily when bent in any way.
We may not know exactly why its wood behaves in a certain way, but it's been eons of evolution that made it the way it is. If it has certain features, there is probably a good reason for it, we just may not know yet exactly why.
When I see my fruit trees (apples, pears, cherries, peaches and so on), their branches need to be able to bend under the heavy load of the fruit in the summer and fall without breaking. Incidentally, these species make excellent bows as well, because they have similar properties as yew.
I like the way E Jensen put it as crown wood, makes a lot of sense to me: it couples the need for higher elasticity to the functional aspects of being wood that has to bend more.