DC I'm gonna see if I can look back in my pictures and post a couple that might help. HHB acts the same way and I had a lot of trouble at first bending it. Like Marc said round of the edge on belly side to a D profile. Speed getting it ready is so important don't waste a split second. I like how I have the end of my caul now I don't need a clamp and that speeds things up so much. I also like my lid for my kettle. It's just a old aluminum kettle. I cut two slits in the top and bent them straight. I can Stick limb tip in opening belly down. I usually have to steam my HHB at least a hour and even then I really turn the heat up to a good roiling boil the last 15min. I always have my clean leather gloves, clamps, pads and if possible another set of hands right ready. I don't force it I have done it enough now I can tell when it's going to bend and when I have to put it back in the steam. I also use the metal strap. Good Luck
Bjrogg