The short answer is to use .600 shafts for kids bows and most primitive bows. For kids bows to be well tuned, you would want even less spine, but a .700 or more shaft is hard to find.
The long answer, I believe, is that 26/inches deflection= amo spine in lbs.
So a .500 shaft is about 52. A .600 shaft is 43 lbs.