First off, Im not arguing with you Jim.
With only 3/8" thick ipe its very difficult to stop the bending by simply adding a handle section. There needs to be proper core thickness prior to the grip to stop it, i.e. power lam between the ipe and hickory back. Have a look at these pics and you will see how the ipe thickens as the fade starts, its essential to keeping the grip on. If your ipe was 1/2" or 5/8" thick, as seen in these pics, you could get away with simply gluing a handle section on like I did on this bow.