I respectfully disagree. The amount of glue doing the work is a very small, thin film, ideally. Do a thought experiment: if you placed two surfaces an inch apart and filled the gap with the best glue possible and let it cure completely, would you trust it?
If I understand correctly, the slow curing epoxies are strong because the have time to soak into the wood surfaces and increase the amount of wood that becomes bonded. That, and good glues are less brittle than cheap or quick drying epoxy. Gaps are just weak spots. If you are worried, let the glue soak in a little before joining the parts.
I should tell you that my experience comes from building model airplanes, where holding things together is always a good idea. I will admit I have never spliced a bow stave, but the principle is the same.