Tower, are you aware that Fred passed away? His son checks in here on his dad's account once in a while, --but that would account for the lack of response. Every year one or two people flake out and just try to get a bow for nothing, which is unfortunate. If whoever was supposed to send you a bow reads this--carma will come back to get you somewhere.
I will say that most people here on this site will try their very best to do right by their trade partner. Those that don't go on "The List"