I know what you mean Tray,I have been there,it's tough but gets easier.I have
had some bad luck bending white wood,and Osage for that mater,so I always weight
the risk before I start,anytime you bend it backwards there is a chance it will lift
or break.I have found,you must be ready,everything set up before you start
and like Mullet said I keep a heat gun ready to keep it hot if it is taking to long.
Another thing,I know it is hard but try not to get to attached ,it is just a piece of wood
and this is a life long venture,you learn from every screw up.I tell GregB all the time
you got to have fire to.
Now get another piece and get at it.
Pappy