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Offline criveraville

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My dad has been put on hospice
« on: October 02, 2016, 03:40:55 am »
Good morning. On Tuesday, I took half a day off from school to take my dad to the doctor. In less than a month he went from living a self sufficient life to needing constant care and being confined to a wheelchair. My mom couldn't get him in and out of the car.

I never thought I would one day find myself sitting in a doctor's patient room to hear that my dad needed to go on hospice. He explained the process to my mom, my dad and I. Then I translated it.

That evening I sat our three kids down and let them know. It's been hard on Diego.

This morning my dad let me know that they are selling the place and moving an hour and a half away to be close to my sister. He said, "I'm old, I'm tired, I'm sick and I can't do anything outside anymore."

They will stay with my sister until that happens. I drive them up there on Thursday. I let the kids know about that today. They live five minutes away now.


Before receiving the news about hospice on Tuesday, I had begun an application to a medical facility in San Diego that my dad can receive a life saving treatment. You have to be accepted as a patient, and my dad qualified.

I'm asking if you could please keep my dad and our family in your thoughts and prayers. My dad was put on hospice on Tuesday. He has been given months to live. If you can please share this link on your social media and ask your friends and family to share it too, it would be very much appreciated.

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Thank you,
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Offline Aaron H

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #1 on: October 02, 2016, 07:07:20 am »
You and your family will be in my prayers Cip

Offline bjrogg

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #2 on: October 02, 2016, 07:29:41 am »
Your dad and family are in my prayers. My mom passed 11 years ago. She was on hospice for the last 3 day's. I pray that they are as nice to your dad and family as they where for my mom. They have a hard job at a hard time in your life. They where very respectful and helpful at this very stressful time for my family.
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Offline Stixnstones

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #3 on: October 02, 2016, 08:10:38 am »
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. My mom has been in a nursing home for about a year now with dimentia. 2 months ago hospice nurses have been taking care of her instead of the nursing home nurses.They are just making things much more comfortable for her. It takes special kind of people to do that work.
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Offline selfbow joe

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #4 on: October 02, 2016, 09:08:45 am »
Thought and prayers to your family.

Offline PEARL DRUMS

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #5 on: October 02, 2016, 09:16:02 am »
That's tough, keep your chin up Cip.
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Offline Zuma

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #6 on: October 02, 2016, 02:03:20 pm »
In my prayers. Like Pearly says,
It's a part of life. Be kind to yours
also.
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Offline Del the cat

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #7 on: October 02, 2016, 02:19:21 pm »
My thoughts are with you, lost both my parents a couple of years back...  :(
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Offline JW_Halverson

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #8 on: October 02, 2016, 04:04:06 pm »
There for you.
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Offline bubby

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #9 on: October 02, 2016, 05:32:02 pm »
will do amigo hang tough
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Offline Chief RID

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #10 on: October 02, 2016, 08:21:24 pm »
Prayer for you family is lifted up.

Offline Spotted Dog

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #11 on: October 02, 2016, 09:21:18 pm »
 I understand the pain. My dad is there too. My prayers are with you all.

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Offline Pappy

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #12 on: October 03, 2016, 05:15:00 am »
In my thoughts and prayers Cip.
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Offline country

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #13 on: October 04, 2016, 12:08:10 am »
That's rough ..   I went through it with my dad too.  Healthy in May and died in August.  Still miss him a lot. 

Offline BowEd

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Re: My dad has been put on hospice
« Reply #14 on: October 04, 2016, 10:08:16 am »
Thoughts and prayers here about your situation.My parents have been gone for quite some time.
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