Stuck...for me, I want the bend near perfect before I get the handle moving. Near perfect each limb, and near perfect in symmetry. Then I loosen the handle just enough to feel it. Your over stressing the limbs just outside the fades, or so it appears to me. Your close, but I would get that fixed before anything.
EDIT. I said fades and you have none, but just outside the handle would be more precise.