Hey, Dana
I hear yah on the "someone else pulling your bow" problem. I made a bow for my Dad on Father's day a couple years back. He was not very tall, and his draw length was only 22". I made him a 40# @ 22" hickory selfbow, and some knucklehead, without asking, gave it a big yank, and Ka-Boom. He thought the bow was faulty. I wanted to flatten his nose.
Hey, Yankee
Dang it!! A lot of work went into that!! Live & learn.