Most folks have been there Bruce...n been in your shoes. I know i have. Ya know...two of the few of my favorite bows are simple mid to upper sixties inch long slight bend in the handle bows.
Honestly I don't think you ever learned to walk before starting to try to run. Once ya take some time and cool down get back to the simple basics and start over.
I think you could benefit greatly by spending some time with an experienced bowyer...they could clear a lot of things up in a day. Wish you were closer to me cus I'd really like to help you,and honestly I'd like to see you succeed at this. I know ya can