bending the handle is pretty extreme way to gain a few pounds
cutting the tips a bit shorter would give you the weight without compromising the whole bow( or recurving them a bit)
we have all ruined bows trying to make them just a bit "better" that is common mistake
your bow may have moisture issues,, fix that first, and then see if you want to proceed to increase your weight
I am not sure what you did to your handle, bottom line,,, it did not work,,,so a different approach is needed
i feel like if you get the moisture the same as before you steamed,, your weight will come back
a heat box may be in order
bending the handle to put the tips further forward may add weight,, but it may just make the bow take more set and off set itself,,, I have had success doing this,, and failure