Gordon, I have never made a tri-lam before(on my list) on my belly slats I taper about 1/8" for a r/d and a bit more than that for a recurve. My method may not be the best or the fastest but all I do is mark a spot an 1/8" on the end of the slat(bothsides) then with a long straight edge or sometimes with fineline tape I make a line all the way to where the fades will be. I do this by hand with a file then finish up with 80 grit on a longboard, just follow the line. The taper near the handle is so gradual that your glue lines will be just fine, no problems with my method so far. I would also taper the belly lam, that will give it a nice bend in your caul.
My 1/8" is just an example, on a tri-lam you may wish to taper less than that, since you will have thinner slats.
Hope you find the answer you are looking for.