yes make the taper even,,
if the grain is not even, you may not be able to have an even taper on the grain..some staves are like that
the thickness of the limb and how it is bending or working trumps what the grain is doing
you want the limb to work evenly,,,if the way the grain looks is not coinciding with the taper or even tiller,, go with the taper and even tiller
those staves can be tricky,, cause a deflex spot can look like a hinge,,and will trick the bowmaker into making a stiff spot there,,and when reflexed can trick the bow maker into making that spot to thin,, to make it" look right",,,,, you need to go with the even taper on these spots so the wood works evenly,,,even if it does not "look right"