Thanks guys, mohawk, not sure what the second and third word of your reply is, but I think I get the jist.
Like I said, I don't like a glossy finish either, satin/flat for me, but I've got three coats of tru-oil on now, sanding w/00 steel wool between and it looks really nice. I figure it will dull up w/ use, but for now it looks nice glossy. If I decide I don't like the glossy I can always flatten it.
Thanks for the replies, gonna continue in the manner I was going.
Thanks, dp