For the handle, thought of gluing several laminations to make the handle bend a bit.
What do you mean by this? If the ipé is thick enough, you don't need to add more wood to it. If the ipé is thin, like 7/16" or so, then a
powerlam glued between the ipé and the bamboo, will add sufficient thickness to make the handle a bit stiffer. Only if you want a stiff handle (which I don't recommend given the short overall length), you should consider glueing down several laminations. A little bit of additional thickness goes a long way in stiffening up the handle! What thickness is your ipé lam?
A limb thickness tapering to 1/4" is way too thin. You need about 7/16" total (boo included) at the tips. The width can be 1/4" though.
How severe is the grain run off after 61"? You could perhaps make the bow 64" or so, since the last 3" with grain run off are in the stiff tips anyway, so a bit of grain run off won't matter nearly as much. But it's hard to judge without seeing a pic of the grain run off.