As already said make 100 percent sure the tips are aligned. I usually use a jig that stops the tip uncurling and use my heatgun to heat it and then over correct it a little.
You definately don't want it to be way over weight when you first brace it but these sort of bows always seem very heavy early on.... remember that all that bending to brace doesn't get measured on the scale when tillering
So it's a bit of a balancing act getting it close enough to finished weight that you don't over strain it whilst bracing but also not having it too light that you don't actually have room to tiller it after brace.
I use my vice to hold the bow early on and simply pull the tip by hand to check the bend - no string needed. You do need to devolp 'the feel' a bit though!