I have been working on a red oak bow for a while now and have reached a place of frustration. the back and belly feel like glass after a session with 800 grit sand paper and in between each grit (60,120,220,320,400,600,800) I rub a damp cloth up and down the bow to raise the grain. my issue is that the dust builds up in the VERY porus growth rings and even after a damp cloth rub it seems to stick. Also this makes the wood slightly rough from the moisture. I tried using a nylon stiff bristled brush to scrub it out but could only do so much. I would like to remove this sanding dust so that I can heat treat the belly some but the dust could lead to un-even heat on the bow. Not to mention that when I stain the bow I dont want this dust mixing in or soaking up the stain and falling off later. Am I just obsessing over a mundane detail or am I correct in this line of thought? And lastly, I bent recurves in and unclamped them in a childish frenzy, strung the bow, shot it and now there are no recurves in it... I know nowthat patience for a day and nightmight have prevented this, my question is can I try again (with steam) or is the wood weakened to much?