When I make a bow for someone else, the weight isn't really an issue. I know what I am okay with sending out and what I'm not. If you feel like the bow is good and you are happy with it then send it out. Maybe cutting off a few inches would give you the weight you need? If its just a matter of tips to redo and you have the length is make her at least your guys min weight. The bow looks tillered well enough that you could probably lose the length. Or keep this one and make the twin for your recipient. But if its hitting weight within the range ( I think we had like ten lbs) then is send it. If it was under I would fix it or make another. That's just me.