Dan,
Not for sure about the better or best way. Many factors would come into play, how many logs do you have, what kind of space for storage, do you have a hot box, are you wanting to build right now or in a year after they cure? As far as bending,split logs can bend and twist. I've never used vine maple, but hickory will. You can rough to bow size, clap to form an put in a hot box to dry. Make sure you seal the back and ends first. During bow building unless the stave is just perfect I just get out the steamer.
Knapper