Got some very bad news , my mother had lost her tounge to cancer early this year .
Today she went back for some tests , the cancer was aggressive and has spread to her bones , lungs , and other places , she is not going to fight it this time .
She has decided to live the best that she can and not through treatments that are not going to help , at her age she doesn't heal to well any more and the treatments would only make her feel worse and not really prolong her life , we are not going to force her to do anything that she doesn't want to, it's her life to live the way she wants and we are there to help her when she needs it .