OK folks (drumroll) - I found it!! I think
. Ralph, I couldn't get your site to come up. Marie: In the enature.com site I found two that look almost Identical. One is a Lotebush/Graythorn/Texas Buckthorn - almost perfect match, cept is says up to 10' tall and I've seen em 20'
. The other is a Common Privet, which looks identical and (they say) grows to 15'. Hmm, it's one of them - it sure ain't Chittamwood, found that one too and it's not even close. Maybe I'll do some more diggin later - thanks fer help all!!