To misquote a wonderful post of Del's, "pull it until it breaks, then back off a bit."
I often use the basic principle of building a bow's length to be double the draw length plus 10%. For my own draw length of 26, that would be 57.2" between the nocks, allowing for a stiff handle and fadeouts. When I write "X lbs @ 26 inches" on that bow, it should be a clear indication not to pull past 26 inches.
But AMO standards require the bow to be marked with the draw weight at their standard length of 28 inches. So non-primitive archery types tend to be confused with my marks. They are used to walking into a bow shop and pulling something off the shelf and believing it is safe at all draw lengths. My 57.2" bow could be pulled to 28 and suffer set, or I could overbuild and add another 4-6 inches of length so that in case the person overdraws beyond the 26" the bow would not suffer much.
Ultimately, building a bow for someone is a nasty gamble, especially if they aren't well versed in primitive archery. They will hand the bow to a 6'9" gorilla and blame you as they are pulling bloody splinters out of his forearm and left eyesocket. I tell everyone that their bow is built to "their individual specifications" and that once it leaves my hands there is no warranty, expressed or implied. I further tell them that it will break some day, and the more they let someone else shoot it the sooner that day comes. And lastly, this is why I chose to not seek to become a professional bowyer. I refuse to expose myself to that level of liability. Because if I get sued and they take my modest investment in hand tools, my 13 yr old jeep, and my coffee can of loose change (mislabelled 401 OK) then I got nothing left.
Your mileage may vary.