3" of reflex is a lot, it will make the tillering a little more tricky but you'll have a better bow for it if you succeed. I wouldn't add "ears" or static tips to the bow. The tendency in tillering a highly reflexed stave, is to come in under weight. This is because the thing feels so stiff early in the draw, that you are fooled into thinking it is still stiffer than it really is. That, and when a limb is loaded up more from the reflex, it needs to be thinner to make the given weight. Thinner limb, means a narrower thickness taper, which is harder to execute. Its a touchy tiller, you can easily change the profile with a few swipes of a scraper.
You would do well to floor tiller prior to heat bending, it is easier to manipulate a skinnier piece of wood.