You could propably also find some short clips on youtube on handstraightning arrows, propably the easiest shaft to straighten, is a cedar one ( if you ask me). You could use steam, I handstraighten my shafts when I am target shooting and walking to and from the target.
I would recommend using store bought shafts to start off....don't know If you were talking about handmade or bought shafts...
I found that the only way to match a arrow to a bow is to try different types, but also keep in mind some basic guidelines.
stefan