thanks for the info guys. i also love glocks, my dad has one that he has abused to extreme extents and has NEVER misfired. he has killed i think 17 deer with it. (not legally, i dont support most of my dad's methods or beliefs, dont jump me for what he does.) most of them were head shots from like 20-30 yards so obviously accuracy is there. but, what i dont like about glock: EVERYONE AND THEIR COUSIN HAS ONE! i want something where people arnt like "oh, just another one of those". also, since they started putting those darned finger grooves in them, i cant stand the way they fit my hand. finger grooves are to small.
i love glocks, respect them, and have absolutely nothing bad to say about them, my hand and my taste just dont like them. i just LOVE that hk 45. (dad has a glock 22, 40 cal)
LOVE revolvers. cant go wrong with one. but i want a combat looking pistol. i will admit i may be partialy influenced by the "tacticool" movement. i just think its an insane looking/feeling gun. plus you have to admit automatics are just fun.
on the caliber side of the equation: i have my little sigma 9mm for just playin around with. cheap gun, cheap ammo, something i can beat around, shoot as much as i like, and not realy care much what happens to it. now i want some serious, high end fire power to put a thousand through to get used to it, then fill her with hollow points and use it for whatever needs to die. (deer while squirrel hunting, those pesky cotton mouths, or, god forbid, a threat to myself or my loved ones.) i like the 45. its huge. perhaps unnecessarily so, but i will have no question upon pulling the trigger weather this round will end it or not. however, i do not have a problem with a 40 or even 9mm, i just want something big. H&K also makes the....i think p30 or m30...some thing 30, thats pretty much the exact same gun and grip, just in 9mm or 40 cal. one of those in 40 cal might not be bad, but i just fell in love with that 45. also the hk45 has an integral recoil dampening system that supposedly greatly (up to 30 percent) reduces felt recoil, making the 45 feel like a 40 or so.
i love the hk 45, but there are other opitons. after a week or two of brewing on it im sure i will be a little more open, but i know for sure it will be between the hk45, the whatever 30 in 40 cal, or the XDm in 45 or 40. my girl says im indecisive. i just dont see it.