I have had many of the same experiences. I sell bows. Boy there are a bunch of dummies out there. I have had them pull the bows upside down backwards unstrung and off course there is always some strapping giant willing to test draw your new bow.I had a Mogul giant pull back one of my bamboo horse bows, I had just tilled to 27 inches. man it shot like a rocket, till this J-Bird pulled it reverse grip 32 inches. It didn't break. I was talking to another guy when this happened. I yelled sir please don't do that, He said you mean this and did it again. Then He said you make a really fine bow and said would you build me 10 . I thought this guy is nuts. He gave the big spill How he and his cronies are from the orient and really enjoy shooting asian bows. I never got money or an order, just a over stretch bow. So, I don't string them unless they are in hands reach. Denny