hmmmmmmmm, sounds like a poltergeits to me not a ghost
poltergeist to my understanding will "ply" with people like that
some are good and just having fun,some are bad and can be dangerous(if you beleive such things)
over the years i have had alot of things spooky like that happen
some were edplainable,other not so much
i have been in buildings where people syat here sre supposed to be "spirits",sometimes weird things happened other not so much
we had to put our cat down 2yrs back,he was our pet for a little over 17yrs.
i take that back,he was a member of our family for a little over 17 yrs
we put him down due to health issues he had
i felt very very bad about doing this,especially since our sons werent around to say their good byes to him.
now i never mentioned this to anyone at our home for awhile,actually not untill our youngest son came home on leave.
he was in his bedroom in the basement one night when he was home on leave.
just laying on his bed,half asleep.he said he was startled awake because he flet the cat run acroos the bed and ly down next to him.
he said he looked up,just in time to see his tail diappear out the bedroom door.
this is when i told him and the wife,that when i am in my little work shop in the basement that i thought i had been seeing him eery now and again out of the corner of my eye,thought i was loosing it.glad my youngest seen him too.
well after he went back to his ship,i was still seeing our cat every now and again.
a few months later both of our sons cam home on leave at the same time.
my youngest asked if i was still seeing him and i told him that i was.
the four of us talked about this for an hour or so.
we talked about how we all loved him and how much we missed him and that he was truly not a pet but a member of out family.
we talked and talked about this that day.
after both had gone back to their assigned duty stations,all the sightings had stopped.
i havent seen him since,and neither has anyone else in the family.
i think he was just hanging around to see both of our son one last time so they could say good bye to him.
well i gotta stop now,typing this is getting my teary eyed cause i still miss my little buddy
next time you see that ghost or poltergeist (what ever it is)
just try and tell him that your tired of his playfullness and that its time for him to move on
you need to be stern and not act like its joke when you tell Bob this or might think your just loking around
good luck