It now seems that there is no direct reference to me ACTUALLY receiving a, "Full refund" as I was promised by the bowyer.
His response to my asking when would I see a refund coming back to me?
My email to the bowyer:
Good day.
I am writing to ask you when I would see a refund for that Osage bow with the crack in it that you had instructed me to send back for a full refund?
According to the US Post Office's tracking and delivery confirmation, it had arrived at your P.O. Box at 8:38am on Friday, December 5th of last week, so I figured I'd
contact you regarding it.
I thank you for your time.
Have yourself a good week.
Warm Regards,Response from bowyer, quote,
"There will be an envelope in the mail for you as of this morning. Should be there by tursday or friday outlining the finding on this bow."Absolutely NO mention that he will stick by his word and provide a full refund as he promised me both over the phone and via email.
This, after the last email I received from this man, which is as follows, quote,
"Your manners are nice, Your words lead to dissapointment. Dont you ever bother me again.
Send that bow back for a full refund and never speak to me again."That email telling me not to, bother him, was sent in response to this email, when I wrote him after our phone conversation when I got yelled at continuously no matter what I said, how I said it, the tone, words, etc.
Quote...
"I do not know what to say to you but, yet again apologize for upsetting you.
Neither one of us can assume anything about the other person. Good or bad.
Each of us have our issues, however, neither of us should lash out as we have on the phone.
I did not appreciate when you told me that I did not know this or that, as you do not know anything about me. I did not assume anything about you.
However, you cannot lash out at me for apologizing, and actually praising your work and me telling you that I so honestly appreciate your kindness and good nature when you had answered my questions in regards
to bow making, etc.
I was not trying to pity you in regards to what you and I spoke of. I was raised to be compassionate towards others, plain and simple.
I was truly hoping that our phone conversation would have gone much better. I was hoping, and assumed that we would have easily came to an understanding about what I had wrote you and so on. Instead, sadly, it went the other way.
I do wish you a good day today and a good Thanksgiving this year.
I do believe that a man with your knowledge, a successful business and good friends has a lot to be thankful for , as I have a lot to be thankful for myself.
All things are possible with God,.... that is why I called you, that is why I wrote you, that is even why I first contacted you to see about ordering a bow.
As a side note, I want to thank you for your service in the military. I have always honored and respected those who have served. That's the way I was raised,...that's the way I will always be.
So, regardless of anything that was said, I thank you. This is not pity,... this is not me feeling that I should say it, or that it would patch up anything. This is just the way I am. Simple.
I thank you once again for your time.
I will not take any more of it up from you as I'm sure you have a lot to do today. You'll be in my prayers.
Have a good, safe holiday this week.
God Bless.
Warm Regards,"I am supposed to be getting a,
"full refund".....Supposed to be.
I don't think I'm off base when I saw that this is absolutely NO way to treat a customer.
I guess this is his Merry Christmas holiday greeting me?
This after he knows very well that I am expecting our first child, and that I wasn't even sure if I was going to take a dive and get back into archery, even though I really wanted to for some time now. I gave it up after my great grandfather died years and years ago,... I lost interest after the man who taught me how to shoot passed.
I told the guy that I was mainly busy picking up everything we'll need when our little one comes, but that my wife had told me that it would be my Christmas present from her to me this year,... quite a pricey one at over $250 dollars or more (I can't recall right now, I'm to aggravated).
I wonder if maybe I've made a big mistake with the idea of getting back into archery and hunting at this point?
There have been a good number of really nice people on here thus far that have pretty much told me to keep my chin up with all of this, however, at the rate I'm going, I wonder if I'm better off just saying a big Thank You to those who've been kind and just bidding everyone a good bye from here and the entire archery world.
In other words, to say that though there are a some I have had the pleasure of talking with on here, I feel like I'm waiting for the piano to just fall on my head already! (Looney Tunes cartoon reference,...no matter what, something happens?)
We'll see.
As for this whole matter, I have been nothing but respectable even in the face of being treated like garbage, insulted and cursed at by this bowyer.
In my WILDEST dreams, NEVER would I have imagined that something like this would have happened to me when I decided to work with this bowyer.
I had said that I would not share the identity of this fellow and his company that has treated me like this because even though in the midst of all of this I was treated badly, I would STILL keep my fingers crossed and hope for the best that
I would indeed see this fellow keep his word ( unless it all fell through, then I'd let people know exactly who he was). There is no indication of a promise kept in any way or shape...
Well, this appears that by his words and deeds he is making it clear I will be getting the short end of the stick,...
THIS BOWYER THAT HAS DONE THIS IS, JIM AT RUDDERBOWS.
I do not advise ANYONE to ever deal with this man, unless you would like to run the terrible risk of having the same fate of being treated like this and ripped off as I have been.
However, this is simply my experience and my opinion.
I personally feel that people should be treated better especially when you treat them well yourself to begin with.