I started by getting "Hunting the Osage Bow" from 3 rivers archery. I get all my stuff there and it's fast, reasonable, with great customer service.
BUT>>>>make some board bows (Jawge's site) before doing stave bows. Just my 2 cents, think you'll be glad you did, and you get out of the gate faster, so to speak. Bowwood takes a while to dry, and there is some dry redoak at the local Home improvement store for you to start with. where are you located at? that will help guys on here give advice on other woods and other materials for you.
As for arrows and shooting? This site has it all. Just look it up, or ask and the great people here will hook ya up.
good luck, and welcome to "the sickness...
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