I think the advice you've gotten so far is right on the money, the urethane must have been really old. Was there a lot of separation, requiring mixing, before you used the stuff? Steel wool and mineral spirits should do the trick. I would avoid chemical strippers, they tend to have xylene and other such things in them, and can rip through a lot more than just paint. The acetone should work well for degreasing. For a nice glossy finish, I have used the following method with some success on hickory.
1st step: Apply linseed oil, rubbed in, and set with a heat gun, can be followed by a second coat, for paranoia's sake, again, set with the heat gun. This is to waterproof the bow. I know this sounds weird for an oily wood like ipe, but liseed oil sets to a varnish, with heat. I would bet the spray laquer might work even better, as I said befor, this was a prep I used on hickory
2nd step: Degrease thoroughly with denatured alchohol. I wouldn't use acetone, as you want some of the linseed oil to stay put, not to strip it right back out of the pores. You could skip this entirely if you used the spray laquer.
3rd step: Apply clear, water-based polyurethane, explaining the need to waterproof, then degrease the bow. Apply 5-6 thin coats, sanding lightly between coats, making sure to sand out drips and brush marks. Let it dry hard, before applying subsequent coats; you don't want to risk sealing in moisture, even with the linseed oil base. The reason for water-based is that it dries clear, not yellow, dries faster, and dries harder than oil based poly.
need to split the post. BRB