set is often confused with string follow.if a stave is reflexed 5", and when it is completely tillered, it is only reflexed 3", then it took 2" of set.string follow is when the bow is no longer reflexed(either because you didnt start with any reflex or not alot) at the end of the tillering and is bent permanently towards the belly. I hope this makes sense, if not a more experienced person can explain it better. And stack, well im not to sure about stack. i think it is if your string angle at the nocks is high then the bow will become harder to pull near the end of the draw, and i also think it causes more handshock. hope this helps